Allrighty, we're going to dig into the "wiring" of your brain: visual auditory kinesthetic also known as VAK. The three "modalities" are a simple and helpful way to discover people's communication preference. If you are familiar with NLP (Nero Linguistic Programming), then you're probably familiar with the VAK. We communicate and learn from our primary three input senses: ears, eyes and sensation (touch).
Here's the quick take.
Visual communication/learning have two sub-channels: spatial and linguistic.Visual-linguistic involves the written word, such as writing and reading. On the other hand visual-spatial involves non-words such as pictures, film.
Auditory communication/learning involves the transfer of information through listening to words being spoken to oneself and others.
Kinesthetic communication/learning involves physical experience, they retain better by doing things that are hands-on. This also has two sub-channels: tactile (touch) and kinesthetic (movement).
Identify Your Communication/Learning Style
First let's take a quick look how YOUR own brain is wired. Once you know that, then you can customize your learning/communication tactics to help you retain information better:
In my case I retain information primarily by visual and kinesthetic. (Good thing too, since I have a 'severe-profound' hearing loss!). I remember things better when I see it, but even better when I actually do and "feel" the thing I'm trying to remember.
By now you have been able to identify your primary communication style. If you need to dig a little deeper, here are some additional "visual auditory kinesthetic" teststhat may help:
Optimizing YOUR communication style to other people
After you get an understanding on your personal communication/learning style, you can apply the same concept to help communicate effectively to others. Being able to coordinate with the other person's primary communication style allows you to be a more effective communicator.
For instance if a person has a strong visual modality then using effective gestures and facial expressions will help get the message across. Or if the person has a strong auditory modality, then having a clear voice, tonal variety will be your best bet. Finally, for kinesthetic you would communicate your emotions by saying "it feels like", "do you sense..." to communicate clearer to that person.
According to Richard Bandler, one of the pioneers of NLP he said the eyes give clues to which modality (visual auditory kinesthetic) people primarily refer to.
In addition here's a short list of a key words and phrases people use to clarify their preference (between visual auditory kinesthetic).
|appear||sounds||get ahold of|
|See eye to eye||Describe in detail||Get a load of this|
|In light of||As a manner of speaking||You're sharp as a tack|
|Get a mental picture||Just idle talk||Feeling hot headed|
|You can plainly see||That rings a bell||It's a pain in the neck|
|Clear cut||It's clear as a bell||It boils down to|
|appears to me||That's an earful||Get a grip on|
|You're a sight for sore eyes||All tounge-tied||Starting from scratch|
|Make a scene||Pay more attention to||Go Hand in hand|
|My perspective on this||Hold your tounge||Keep your shirt on!|
|Appears to be||Heard/Hearing Voices||Get in touch with|
|Under your nose||Within Hearing range||It Slipped my mind|
You can use the words above to match their communication style, or you can use pictures or written words for visual communicators, or you can find ways to blend their experience with what you're trying to communicate. There are no hard rules, just experiment and see what works!
To summarize, identifying your communication/learning style can help you retain information better in any situation. Which The same can be applied to knowing other people's preferences. Knowing whether a person has a visual auditory kinesthetic preference will allow you to speak the brain's language.
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